How to Make Up with Your Partner After a Fight.

Fight and quarrel are things that can be rarely avoided, no matter how you try so hard to avoid it, in one way or the other, it will definitely come up. So the question is when it happens, as a man what do you do?
If your girlfriend is angry with you Chances are, you've done something that really upset her, whether it was intentional or not. It's inevitable in almost every relationship, but if she's still sticking around, you may be able to get on her good side again. Whether you forgot an important date, said something inconsiderate or got caught looking at another girl, if you make every effort to restore your girlfriend's faith in you, she may end up forgiving you. Most importantly, you must be sincere if you want a positive outcome. If your girlfriend thinks you're full of it when you apologize, this may only make the situation worse. Even though you can't change the past, if you follow the steps in this article, you may be able to soften your girlfriend's heart and get her to forgive your mistakes.

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Offer a sincere apology .
The first thing to do is apologize. Make sure you apologize with conviction, and don't do it just to end the argument. If she thinks you are saying sorry just to avoid the issue at hand, she will likely get even more upset. An apology means nothing if it is sarcastic or insincere. If you want your apology taken seriously, you need to have a change of heart. If you still think you are right, then you are not ready to apologize. Relationships mean compromise, and sometimes you need to accept when you're wrong. Apologizing is not just saying you're sorry. You need to actually state why you are sorry and give her reassurance that you will try to do better next time. Even telling her that you never meant to hurt her might help. In certain situations, avoid promising that it will not happen again, as this can backfire if you make the same mistake again. When apologizing, the most important thing is to make sure you do not blame your girlfriend or make excuses for your actions. Just bite the bullet, admit your faults, make it sound like you're in the wrong and that you recognize your mistakes. This will help her believe that you see what you did wrong, and will allow her to be hopeful that you will not make the same mistake again.
Write her a letter.
You may not have the chance to approach your girlfriend for an apology or even get her to listen because of her anger. In this case, it may help to write her a letter expressing how sorry you are for what you've done. Just like apologizing in person, ensure that you are taking responsibility for your actions and not blaming her for the issue. Unlike spoken words, a letter is something that she can read more than once, giving her more reassurance each time she reads it. A letter is a good choice if she is angry to the point that you cannot reach her.
Tell her you love her .
This may stick in her mind more than the argument or hurtful situation. Saying the words "I love you" (and meaning it) can help her feelings change from totally angry to feeling loved, regardless of your mistake. Be sure that no matter how you apologize, use those three sweet words. You'll be glad you did.
 Give her some time .
The biggest mistake a guy can make when apologizing is not knowing when to leave her alone until the event dies down a little, so step back and let her dwell on the situation. Some guys don't understand the power of letting things cool off. Giving her time to think things over about your mistake can help her realize the situation, and it saves you from having to apologize a million times to her for your actions. If she is too angry to talk to, simply step away and chill out until she is ready to talk if the opportunity presents itself.
 Communicate .
Even if you let things cool off for the day, be sure to check with her through a call, text, email or messaging. These actions may trigger a conversation about the issue if she is ready to talk about what happened. Be prepared to talk about the situation because she will not let the issue go away easily. Whenever you check in on her, be prepared to have to talk about the issue, and think long and hard about what you want to say to her. The mistake of saying the wrong thing can bring her to the point of no return, leaving you without a chance to rekindle your relationship.
 Go out of your way for her .
When all else fails, sometimes you need to prove your commitment to her. Find something she wanted you to do that you have never given in to. It could be doing the laundry, washing the dishes, giving up a sporting event, etc. There is something in every relationship that has been asked but not granted for one reason or another. If you really want her back, you need to give up whatever that is to demonstrate that you really do love her enough to sacrifice something for her.
 Try to make it up to her .
This will only work if you're still in contact with each other. Cook her favorite meal, buy her a bouquet of flowers or some chocolates, or give her a thoughtful gift. Offer to take her out somewhere fun. It's also important to show interest in the things that she talks about, and that you listen to her. She may not be open to receiving gifts or going out with you, but the gesture is important and it shows that you care. Also, it's important that you continue to treat her well even after she forgives you, or else she may believe you're just doing this for your own benefit.
 Have patience .
If you have exhausted all of the other steps with no result, the final and hardest thing is to give her time alone without you, as time can heal all wounds when done right. Giving her time alone allows her to think over the situation. Sometimes time alone can help her realize that you're sorry without actually apologizing for your actions. Getting a girl to forgive you can be a hard thing to do depending on the reason she's angry, but the steps above can help you get her back unless you've gone too far. Lastly, if you do get her back, try your hardest not to make the same mistake again. That could force yet another chain of apologizing events, and these steps may not work if she's tired of all of the apologies.