Asoebi styles are always a way to show off someone's sense of fashion and creativity. For every style worn by a fashion enthusiast, new realms of creativity are projected. 


Asoebi swag Women step out in different styles almost every weekend for that special occasion. The cute thing about this looking good lifestyle is, every occasion is another avenue to show case their latest design. Zacohit.com brings you some stunning asoebi styles ladies can rock this weekend to find mr right.


 1. A simple, plain fabric can become a master piece with the right colourful patches. Stunning in yellow


 2.  A simple dress can have the perfect peplum to enhance the lovely style and design of the gown. Swagging in prints 


3. Every woman looks good in a ball dress and flowery designs. Flowery and black 

4. If you've got great shoulder angles, flaunt them baby. Purple fever 

 5. When the ankara print is too dull, spice it up with another colourful material. Lovely in ankara mix and match 


6. Red is the colour of goddesses. La rouge inspired 



7. Let your sleeves be bold and extra, it's how queens roll.

 Modella

This might sound a bit harsh, but I think there is sense in it.
The rate at which our girls fall victims of sexual harassment and molestation is quite alarming and disheartening.

 Most of these girls are to be blamed due to their laxity and lackadaisical attitude towards their morals. Most people tag them "Cheap" while others tag them "Hoes".

As a result of this, a Facebook user took to his Facebook to enlist features of a cheap girl. 
See below who a cheap girl really is..

1. A cheap girl is any girl who is living in a man's house and the man has not paid her bride price, no wedding but she is living with the man.
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2. A cheap girl is any girl who is already having sex with a common boyfriend and she does not know where the relationship is heading to, she does not know where the guy come from, she does not know anything about the guy, no marriage plan, no wedding hope, but she is already having sex with the guy because of the money she is getting from the him.
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3. A cheap girl is any girl who dresses half naked in the name of fashion, exposing her boobs and other erotic parts of her body on the street.
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4. A cheap girl is any girl who sends her nude pix to her boyfriends.
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5. A cheap girl is any girl who has done one or more abortions and she is still doing more.
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6. A cheap girl is any girl who reads this post and gets angry with the poster.

What's your own view...?
You can share with us.....

It is already believed that men are polygamous in nature; they must cheat. But what if we ladies are actually the ones pushing them to cheat without knowing? I believe we can keep our men to ourselves alone if we want to.
Here are 13 things you should do if you want your man to remain yours without the urge to look elsewhere:

1. Make Yourself Attractive:

Yes! Your man should always find you attractive, though your physical attraction should not be the only reason for his desires towards you; but will be foundation. Being attractive is something under your control and you don’t need to be miss world to achieve that as a woman. Aside physical beauty, you need to build yourself to be attractive in other areas of your life. Being attractive goes beyond physical appearance; it extends to other qualities that makes you the real you such as, your communication and understanding skills, your strength, your dreams and aspirations in life and your charisma. All of these are your selling points that will attract and endear your man to you.

Even as a very pretty woman, you will still find it very difficult to keep your man if your level of attraction is low. If you have insecurity and low self-esteem problems, it can bore any man and equally tend to be unattractive too. Insecurity is the mother to desperation whose endpoint is always unattractive. With those two negative qualities, you may find it extremely hard to keep any man of your choice.
Work on your attraction; build up yourself to appear attractive to your man. He does not even want you to be “Mrs. Perfect”, so don’t bore him with that your self-doubt issues because it is very unattractive. Own up to your imperfections and work on yourself because that will attract him more.

2. Be his Object of Inspiration:
A good relationship is not all about your physical body looks and your sex skills in bed. You have to offer more than sex for him to value you in his life, remember he can buy sex if it was all he needed. The earlier you get that into your head as a woman the better for your relationship. Make your man feel inspired, tell him how you believe in him, in what he does and how he does them. Your ability to reach him deeply will increase his value for you. This will also push him to confide in you and trusting that you will always get the picture better than another will. Men generally have deep unconscious fear about life and at same time have dreams, aspirations and hopes. Therefore, as his woman you need to help him achieve his mission in life by always inspiring him to reach his ultimate potentials as your man.

3. Channel your Energy towards Building a Healthy Relationship:

Instead of worrying and complaining that the ring is not coming as at when expected, such energy should be geared towards making your relationship stronger and healthier. Get out of those fears and insecurities because they might end up delaying the date of the ring further. Yes! You must have suffered frustration and betrayals in your past relationships, but such emotions like frustrations and insecurities can only repel your man and leaving you in misery. Try as much as you can to find love and self-fulfillment in your relationship independent of your worries. With that, you will have little or no time to worry about the date of the ring. Your energy should be spent on finding out how to love your man the way that is deeply meaningful and valuable to him rather than worrying about him calling it quit with you without the ring.

4. You Need to Be a Happy Woman that Smiles Always:
Men naturally have a lot to think about, they have to fix many things around them. You as a woman who thinks that your man should also fix you by making you happy tend to be a boring venture to him. No man can fix your happiness for you because each and everyone is responsible for his or her own happiness. Don’t leave your man feeling frustrated or failed with your unhappy mood; men don’t like that. Everyone has his or her downtime, but be happy most of the time because that makes you more attractive.
If you must know, one of your attractive tools as a woman is your smiles because when you are happy, it radiates outwardly and makes everyone around you feel good and comfortable.

5. Men Always Want to Feel Masculine:
No man enjoys the fact that his woman bosses him around as if she’s his mom. For the love of Mike, allow your man to man you. Hope you got that? He sure doesn’t want to date a mom, so always give that masculinity a room for him to feel more confident and strong around you. There is no need for you, as a woman to be calling all the shots in your relationship, please don’t dwarf your man with that because he isn’t finding that funny. If you are the control freak type of a woman, work to keep it under check. It might look as if your man is the pushover type but don’t ever relay on such and take advantage of him, it will leave an unbalanced void in your relationship which is very unhealthy for you. I’m not saying you shouldn’t say your mind as a woman but don’t allow yourself go overboard in your opinions, like making them look like rules or commands.

6. Be a Sensual and Thoughtful Woman:
He also wants you to be thoughtful with what he needs at a particular time. For instance, after a stressful day, a lovely text message can go down well to work wonders for him. Buying his favorites, be it gifts or snacks, can really work wonders in your relationship. What you don’t know is that it can push him to start reciprocating if he isn’t doing that already.
Your level of sensuality also matters to him, for example, your tone of voice, eye contact, your smiles, your body language and so on. I can remember the first time my man spoke to me; he couldn’t help but appreciate my voice and the way I laughed; that was the first attraction.
7. Be Trustworthy:
You need to give him the benefit of doubt that he can always trust you on anything. Remember that the word “trust” is a big problem in relationships. As you are looking for a man you can trust, so are men looking for a woman they can trust.Try always to keep up to your words because it will pass a strong message on your integrity and personality. You need to let him understand that he is safe with you. He needs you to prove to him that during his bad moments in life that you will still be there to support and stand by him. Let’s face the truth; it is not easy to be a man. Men carry many burdens on their shoulders and with that, they tend to get frustrated and confused too. He needs to know that during such moments of his life, that you will not only understand but will also personalize it and stand by him. Such will prove to him that your love is unconditional and he will allow his true self to manifest whenever he is with you.

8.Prepare Yourself for Regular Sex:
Maybe not immediately, but when a commitment must have been made such as, serious dating or marriage, you need to give him sex as regularly as he needs it. Don’t see it as a duty, but find a way to find fun in it too. As a woman, you need to prepare for regular sex because just as food is important to you, so is sex is to a man too.Don’t give room for him to start feeling otherwise so that a good side chick will not help you out leaving you to your own misery. Don’t forget that men naturally has higher sex drive and therefore tend to find excitement and pleasure in sex. Life without sex for a man is like a life without passion. Sex issues are always ranking high in a problematic or epileptic marriage.
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9.You need to know how to cook:
This one is very vital, it is said that a way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. If you must give him, reasons to be stuck with you, let this be one of your cardinal tools. Make delicious meals for him that will make him want you often. Don’t get it twisted dear, I’m not suggesting your second room to be the kitchen, but being a good cook and making a good meal for your romantic dinner with your man is encouraged.

10.Learn to be Natural around him:
Wearing makeup is good as a woman, but also cultivate the habit of been natural around your man. Don’t wear that makeup around him all the time, they also want to appreciate your natural looks. When you always wear that crazy makeup around him, it gives him a suspicious feeling that you might be hiding something for him. He might start seeing you as someone that is not real and tend not to believe most of the things you say to him.

11.Learn to accommodate his Friends:
Try to always be polite to his friends even if you can’t stand some of their attitudes, because your man will always stick up for his male friends anytime any day Hun! He will appreciate you more if you are respectful to his friends, co-workers and family; such will prove to him that you love and respect him too. Always try to accommodate these that matter to him.

12.Reduce your level of jealousy with his female friends:
It’s pretty difficult especially if you have once been cheated on in your past relationships, but you have to act confident by cutting down your jealousy around his female friends. Don’t confront him on issues of doubt without proof, so that he will not see you as an insecure or an unsure woman; such characteristics can be very unattractive to men. If you notice that females flirt around your man, which I know can be very provoking, the best you should do is to introduce yourself and your position in his life with a very attractive smile (hahahahahahahaha). Your kind gestures can kill them more and at same time boost your confidence around your man.

13.Please try not to change your man:
Don’t enter your relationship hoping to change your man because it must back fire. No man wants to be changed by you as his woman; love your man for what and whomever he represents. You have to accept him the way he is for him to respect you too. Don’t push him to always do things the way you want it to be done because that will leave him very unhappy around him. If you find out that he is not doing some things rightly, politely discuss it with him and allow him take his time to come around with that. It is not easy for someone to change some habits so easily; it is a gradual process. You can even help him by living by example with those attitudes that tend to be his weaknesses. Allow him to be himself because that will always attract him around you. Love him for who he is and not for who you want him to be for you. Instead of nagging him out with the things he isn’t doing right, why not change it the other way by always telling him his wonderful traits that you respect about him. Such will help him build more confidence and listen to you when you complain of any of his weaknesses knowing that you always do appreciate him. I am not saying you should keep quiet over issues of concern in your relationship, but you should always have it at the back of your mind that no one is perfect, you inclusive. Men change when they must have decided to change; don’t force it down on him for you might just be hurting yourself.
If you can implement all these or even a considerable number of it, you will discover your man will become so attached to you that his friends will think you hypnotized him.

Thanks for stopping by to read this, I will love to listen to your opinions and questions on this via your comments below. 

HOW TO GROW A NATURAL HAIR WITH MORINGA LEAFS.
Hair wonder!

Many wants such.
It feels really great having such....
Its all about MORINGA dry leaves...
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A wonder plant indeed.
It did greatly on my hair.
It can do yours better.

Firstly, maintain a natural self and everything will work as wanted.
Be neat and stay healthy.
Abstain from stress and eat good fruits.
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LEARN NOW:
moringa is a wonder plant indeed on the hair for all hair type,
reduces hair breakage,soften hair,
cleanses dandruff,stimulates hair growth, cost effective.

HOW TO MAKE A PASTE:-
Get any hair oil,
Get a dry moringa leaves,
Mix them together thoroughly,
Pour into a container,
Leave for 24hours.
Then your paste is ready.
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HOW TO USE:-
Part hair to places,
apply gradually from root to top,
massage thoroughly,
leave for weeks for a better result before washing out.

Continue same always.

High heels - they accentuates your legs, make you feel sexy, and look damn pretty on those polished feet. But the harmful effects of wearing them for hours can affect your body, posture, and might even turn out to be the reason for that soaring back pain you've been having recently.

But fear not, we are here to make it better for you. With just a simple, yet really helpful hack, you can now kiss away the pain and soreness that comes with wearing heels.

Here's what you have to do:
Take any adhesive tape, preferably a scotch tape or a nude coloured medical tape, and wrap it around your second and third toe together, and then slide in your feet into those danger high heels.

Now doing this exercise might not look too helpful, but trust us, within a few days, your feet will feel much better.
There's a nerve that runs down the middle of your second and third toe, and when you wear heels, this nerve gets strained. Taping your toes together helps lessen the strain and the pain caused.
However, the hack is not a long-term solution. Wearing heels will inadvertently have its ill-effects on your health. So be wise, and take out those flip-flops once in a while. Give your feet the love they deserve.
Some of these hacks might help you with your other shoe problems. Happy feet to you ladies!

If your guy has these 21 qualities – Hold tight and never let him go!
 1. He knows your breakfast order by heart. Whether it’s a toasted whole wheat sesame bagel with scrambled eggs and cheese and freshly squeezed orange juice or just black coffee. He’ll run out to pick it up or take you with him and recite your order by heart.

2. He checks in on his way home.
With a quick text, “Leaving the bar in 10 minutes. See you soon…” he lets you know that he hasn’t forgotten you, and that he’s ready to be with his favorite person again.
He’s not sending this text because he thinks you’re paranoid, needy or insecure. He sends it out of mutual respect. He knows that giving you a head’s up prevents you from worrying about his safety or his level of sobriety. And it reminds you that he realizes the best part of his night has yet to begin.
It’s also keeping you in the loop so you can cue up the movie you’ve been waiting to watch together.

3. He takes care of you.
He’ll grab you an Advil and a glass of water if you have a headache. He’ll hit the pharmacy for some tissues and cough meds and pick up chicken noodle soup when you have a bad head cold. He’ll force you to take zinc lozenges and nudge you to see a doctor when you claim to be too busy to make an appointment.

4. He calls during the day just to check in.
He may have a funny story to share or he might simply want to see how work is going. He’ll often try to convince you to shut down early so you can spend time together.

5. He’s great with kids.
In fact, you’re pretty sure he could run a sports camp of some type. Kids flock to him and are eager to spend time with him. He’s a great role model. His upbeat personality and enthusiasm are infectious. There are huge grins on children’s little faces when he’s around.

6. He makes time for you.
No matter how busy things get for him, he’ll never forget to set aside consistent alone time with you. You’re a priority to him, so he’s not afraid to turn down plans with “the guys” in favor of some QT with his lady.


7. He’s responsive to each and every one of your calls and texts.
He’ll never go missing for multiple days in a row. He’s reliable. He won’t stand you up when you have plans. He doesn’t ask for rain checks because excuses are not part of his DNA. He’s not one to be consistently late because he cares enough to be on time.

8. He doesn’t keep in touch with ex-girlfriends.
He knows that once a relationship is over, there is no good that can come from staying in close contact, particularly once he’s in a new relationship. There are no strange phone numbers popping up on his cell phone.


Not that you know this because you don’t even feel the need to cybersnoop.

9. He randomly buys you scratch lotto cards.
He loves handing you a coin and watching you uncover the numbers on the card. You’ll plan together what you’d do with the money if you should win. He’s a dreamer. And you love dreaming with him.

10. On certain occasions, you receive heartfelt gifts accompanied by thoughtful greeting cards.
You’re into birthdays and anniversaries, so he is happy to celebrate them with you. If he knows you’re into writing, he’ll get you a beautiful journal.
He inserts his humor into presents, too. For instance, if he sings you your favorite song, he’ll change the words to lyrics so they’re about that annoying co-worker you’ve been telling him about.

11. He’ll be a homebody when you’d rather be at home with his hot body.
Instead of getting dressed up and spending a lot of money on a big night out, he’s ecstatic to stay in and curl up on the couch with you to watch a movie and order takeout. His back-to-back partying nights are behind him and he’s perfectly ok with it.
12. He still screams like a 7-year-old boy when his favorite football team scores a touchdown.
He will be loyal to his team no matter how many times they lose, how many quarterbacks they go through in one season, or how far down the rankings they fall. This loyalty will be passed down to his relationships with family, friends, and even his future spouse. Once devoted, he’s in it for life.

13. He’s still regularly in touch with several of his childhood friends.
Each considers your guy his best friend. He makes the time to call them back to find out what’s going on with them and will find a way to connect with them despite living in different cities and time zones.
14. He over-tips the wait staff at restaurants on a regular basis and is exceptionally polite to service industry workers in general.
You know that if he cares enough to treat total strangers with respect that he’d do that times ten for you, and everyone else he loves.


15. He’s mature.
He is not one to get swept up in the crowd’s momentum without making his own decisions. If several of his friends are doing whiskey shots until 4 AM, he’s the one making sure the tab is paid and that everyone gets home safely.
16. He’s incredibly handsome without trying.
He’s low maintenance and dresses for comfort. The more you’ve gotten to know him, the better looking he’s become. He couldn’t care less what brand your jeans are or how high your heels are. He finds you beautiful in everything.
17. He says at least one thing every day that makes you crack up.
It’s not always intentional—sometimes, it’s just his outlook on things. Though he definitely gets your sense of humor and loves to make you laugh.
18. He knows how to handle you when you’re in a bad mood.
Whether it’s letting you rant for ten minutes straight while you go on about the incredibly selfish friend you have or to force you to go for a walk. He knows better than to start pressing buttons when you’re in this state and he’ll always take your side, even if you’re wrong.

19. He’s secure enough to love your strengths.
He supports and encourages your independence, which is what he loves about you. He respects your need to keep up your own friendships but is happy to join you when invited.
20. He smells really good.
When you hug him, you just want to keep on hugging him, just to breathe in his amazing scent that encapsulates the unique impression he makes. You hope that whatever you’re wearing will absorb just a little bit of his magic and hold on tight to it, releasing traces of it sporadically throughout your day.

21. He’s your biggest fan.
When someone asks him about you, he lights up and proudly describes someone that you’re excited to be. He celebrates your successes because he’s someone who knows you inside and out and can appreciate both your struggles and achievements.
Source: Yourtango

Here with the help of our friends we are going to disect some few immediate turn offs men see in some ladies.

• Farting In Our Presence Men hate this to the core, they may pretend not to but they really hate when you do it in their presence. If you doubt me, go and ask a man whom you don’t know to tell you what he thinks of a lady who fart or always fart in front of him.

Eating too much Whenever you Ladies are in our Presence please try to control your eating habits. Not that we’re too broke to buy you Food but eating without Class just because your indoors is disgusting to say the least!

• Washing of your undies (panties) Please try to reduce the amount of times you wash your undies in our presence. Forget that popular slang which tends to say that when a man loves you, he can even wash your undies, we’re not that cool with seeing someone else’s undies!

• Talking too dirty Please, have control of things you say in our presence. Don’t be too naughty when it comes to your language except you want to remain a GIRLFRIEND FOR LIFE!!!!!

• Laughing excessively Control the length you laugh in front of us. When we’re not around, you can laugh and bring down the roof if you wish. I was talking to a lady and she laughed so loud that she didn’t know when she polluted.

• Always watching movies If your a Nollywood addict please, for the sake of not receiving any RED CARD, stop giving all your time to once your man is around. We need total concentration when we are talking to you

• Fighting Never you fight in front of your man, he may feel that one day you will fight his moth

Men everywhere now want women with big backsides, while women are doing everything possible in order to have one.
Before you join the surgery wagon, or kill yourself doing 100 squats a day, know that there are foods that you can eat in order for your backside to grow naturally, they include the following.

Big B.ooty Foods by Macro-Nutrient Sources

Protein
Protein is what typically every woman here will need to eat more of to help make your b.utt bigger. There is a common misconception that eating more protein or drinking protein shakes is only for bodybuilders. This could not be further from the truth. Every person on this planet requires protein rich foods for optimal health. In fact most people who aren’t working out or trying to grow would still benefit from increasing their protein consumption.
If you are exercising and trying to grow your bum, the amount of protein you require will increase, as protein lays down the building blocks for growth.
I recommend you try and get a protein source in every meal you eat. Around 15-30g of protein per meal. I also recommend you get yourself a good protein shake to drink after your workouts and possibly in a meal or two.
So what are some healthy sources of good protein for a bigger b.uttocks:

Eggs
Skinless Chicken Breasts
Salmon
Tuna
Tilapia
Cottage Cheese
Turkey
Protein Powder
Steak

Beans & Legumes (kidney, chick peas, etc)
Extra Extra Lean Ground Beef
Vegetable Burger
Soya Nuts
Virtually Any Fish (not fried)
Most Lean Cut Meats

Carbohydrates:
Quinoa
Brown Rice
Sweet Potatoes
Oats
Weetabix
Coos Coos
Ezekiel Bread
100% Whole Grain Bread (sparingly)
Low Sugar Breakfast Cereal (sparingly)
Fat:
Contrary to some old stereotypical bad beliefs that are still lingering on — fat does not make you fat. Excess calories and bad foods make you fat, and more prone to getting fat.
Healthy sources of good fats are essential, and can help to actually lose weight or achieve better body composition. Such healthy fat sources include:
Fish Fat/Oils (fish oil pills, salmon fat, etc)
Extra Virgin Olive Oil
Nuts (almonds, cashews, etc)
Peanut Butter (get the ones that contain only peanuts; typical peanut butter contains harmful additives like hydrogenated oils and sugar)
Almond Butter

Vegetables:
Vegetables contain tons of anti-oxidants, nutrients and other goodies that are essential for a growing bo.oty. You can typically eat as much of these as you want without fear.
Broccoli
Spinach
Tomatoes
Kale
Virtually any dark green vegetable
So remember; simply start adding, replacing, or mixing these healthy food sources into your current diet for making your bu.tt bigger. Healthy foods like these are absolutely essential for laying down the materials to help your bu.tt grow after our b.ooty building exercises.
Finally also remember that most people will require more protein, and that probably includes you.