People will see a man washing his clothes and instead of minding their business, they'll say "Ahh Oga Victor, go and marry so you'll stop washing".

They'll see a man cooking and be like "Bro John, you need to get married so you can stop cooking".

A mother will look at his 35years old son who cannot wash his own boxers, boil water for tea or even make his own bed, a 35years old that cannot take his plates to the kitchen after eating and tell him "James, you need to settle down, get a woman to take care of you". SERIOUSLY??

In different ways, the society subconsciously tell men that they don't marry women for any reason other than cleaning, cooking and childbearing. I begin to wonder, does the average man need a wife or a glorified maid?

Many women look 3times their age all because of stress and exhaustion. You sit down in front of the TV with your phone and watch your wife work until she's about to pass out. REALLY?? 😱

Men, who told you that it is wrong to wash your own plates?

Who told you that it is wrong to wash your own clothes?

Who told you that it is wrong to dress your bed when you wake up?

What will it take to help your partner with chores in the house?

If a man wanted to be adopted as a child to be pet, pampered, fed and nursed. Then, he need not to seek marriage, he should rather offer himself up for an adoption at a motherless home to be pick up.

BUT If you want a wife, who you would love, cherish, do different things with, assist in some chores, and love her for the rest of your life, then get married.

AND if you are getting married because you feel you're becoming too old to do your own chores then get a maid.

Women are to be cherished, pampered and loved, not USED.

Source :Naza

                            
Although many of us dreamed of our wedding when we were young, we sure wouldn’t have been able to process how much the big day would cost. It’s only after we’ve become adults that the true cost of a wedding really hits home.

Going into debt because of a wedding isn’t exactly the most romantic way to start a marriage, so read on for suggestions to help you save money on your wedding:

Drop the two-month’s salary engagement rule
Do what works with your budget and a stone with significance. There is no hard and fast rule to buying an engagement ring, so don’t sweat over forking over two months’ salary if both of you can’t afford it.
Keep in mind that you have more wedding expenses to battle. Focus more on the significance of the ring instead of the price tag. Perhaps she’ll be happier with an engagement ring that has her birthstone, or maybe she wants a man-made gem or a pre-worn ring with history.
There are plenty of wallet-friendly options out there, so don’t limit yourself to the never-been-worn traditional diamond ring!

Pick a house, not a hotel, for your bachelorette party
Rather than shelling out for a hotel room, why not rent a house instead? You’ll have a more cozy, intimate atmosphere, and everyone will be free to come and go as they please — free of any messy, time-sensitive checkout situations.

Only invite to the wedding people who are in your life currently
If you haven’t seen someone in a long, long time, then they can probably be considered for your cut list. (Think childhood friends and old acquaintances.) A good rule of thumb: you should invite the people who know your fiancé — the people who have spent time with you as a couple, who play a part in your present lifestyle.

Cut the guest list by category
Divide your guests into groups: immediate family, closest relatives, extended relatives, family friends, friends, acquaintances, kids, coworkers, etc. Once you’ve both classified your lists, see if you can trim the list by removing entire categories. Maybe you can both nix the young kids, the acquaintances, and the coworkers. Keep going until exceptions start to pop up, and then evaluate each possible guest individually.

Embrace the digital age for invites
While printed invitations are lovely, the purchase price adds up, especially when factoring in mailing rates. If a simple email invite isn’t your style for anything fancier than a weekend bar night or birthday party, then consider making a personal video to share the wedding details online.

Instead of a wedding planner, get a day-of coordinator
If you find it hard to organise your wedding without a planner, then consider day-of coordinators, who will make sure your wedding day goes off without a hitch. According to Offbeat Bride, “A good DOC will do quite a bit of troubleshooting for you in the weeks prior to your wedding.”

Source: Gistreel

So many relationships have failed because of no knowledge on the female part on how to s3xually please her man.
So to the ladies, this article will help you to know the right things to do to s3xually please your partner because once you know how to please your man in bed, then you can be pretty certain that other women won’t even enter his mind. If you’re to believe everything you see in pop culture, you’d think men fantasize about sex 25/8 and are literally always down to do it. But in practice, having your partner open up about his fantasies is always a little bit harder than it would seem. If you can master the following techniques, then you will be giving him everything he could possibly want in bed.

Also Read: How to Make Up with Your Partner After a Fight.

 Focus on your oral skills: By far the most enjoyable thing for your man is receiving. You’ll be surprised at just how powerful his orgasms are when you do it right. So what kinds of things should you do to make sure he enjoys it? Glad you asked.
 > Wetter is better: When trying to please your man in bed with oral sex, you’ll find that using lots of saliva is something that he likes very much. Why? Because when you give your man a really wet one, it feels more sensual and just provides better stimulation.
 > Focus on the tip: When trying to please a guy by giving him oral, you may feel like you need pay equal amounts of attention to his entire penis. The truth is you shouldn’t, the top is far more sensitive than the rest of it, which means it’s more pleasing to him to have the top stimulated more than the rest of it.
> Finishing up: When you are trying to figure out how please a man in bed, you may feel like checking out some pornography. You’ll notice that in a lot of scenes, the man finishes on the girl’s chest, neck, butt or face. This is not something you or your man may necessarily like, but it’s a great way to show him that you are willing to try new things to keep your sex life interesting.

Change up your sex positions: If you are just starting to figure out how to please your man in bed, then it’s important that you are aware that nothing kills your sex life faster than routine. I say this again and again because it’s so true. Most couples only ever use two to six different sex positions. If you want to know how to please your man in bed, then you need to learn some new positions to use on him (as well as continuing to use the ones that you both enjoy). Here are a few to get you started:
The Washing Machine Position: In this sex position, you will be standing and leaning right over a washing machine or a table or even over the hood of a car. Your man will be standing too and will enter you from behind.
The Lap Dance Position: In this position, your man will be sitting down on a chair or sofa. You then need to back up onto him with your butt so that he can enter you. The reason that it’s called the lap dance position is because you can smoothly transition to sex from giving your man a lap dance.

Get vocal! If you want a quick and easy tip on how to please your man in bed, then you’ll find that getting vocal and talking dirty to him works wonders. But it’s a good idea to understand that different people have different opinions and preferences on getting vocal and talking dirty. Some aren’t particularly confident and don’t like the idea of saying dirty things to their man in bed, while others are happy to talk dirty to their man. The funny thing is that it doesn’t matter, as long you are vocal to some degree. You could simply be moaning and sighing or you could be using explicit and nasty lines, like the ones in this dirty talking video. As long as you are giving your man feedback by being vocal to some degree and letting him know how much he’s pleasuring you and turning you on, then you are going to please him a lot in bed.

Explore his fantasies: Now that I’ve covered the obvious areas on how to please a man in bed, I want to talk about how to please him in ways that almost no other girl can. The key is finding out his kinks and fantasies and exploring them with him. The first part is finding out what they are. This can be tricky, but if you are accepting and open when listening to him without judgment, then he will have no problem sharing them with you. When you do find out what they are, then it’s time to start trying them out with him. You’ll notice that as you explore them with him, he will start to open up to you about even more of his kinks and fantasies. You don’t have to do them all with him, but if you can do some of them, then your man will eternally grateful and appreciative.

Show him you’re excited to sleep with him: The last thing I want to talk to you about and teach you when learning how to please your man in bed is your attitude. It’s how you approach sex with your man. Do you approach sex with him like it’s a chore that you can’t wait to get over with? Or are you enthusiastic about trying new positions, tips, tricks, tactics and techniques in bed with your man? Whatever your attitude is now doesn’t matter. The key is changing it so that you become more enthusiastic and eagerly look forward to getting sexual with your man.

Coined from : Theinfong

Two identical twins who share a bed with their joint boyfriend have now revealed they both plan to marry him.



Anna and Lucy DeCinque, from Perth, Australia, both plan to tie the knot with boyfriend Ben Byrne having met him on Facebook five years ago. The 30-year-old sisters say they plan to travel to Tucson, Arizona, to say their three-way vows.


Arizona's constitution bans polygamy but lists no punishment - meaning many travel for wedding services which are described as 'spiritual' rather than legal unions.


According to UK Mirror, announcing their intentions on YouTube, the pair said: "We’ve been with him for five years so he’s twinning and winning… We do want to marry the same man and his name is Ben.And now we've been thinking, how is that going to work? Many debate is it possible? Can it really work? I don't really know. "We've actually heard in Tucson [America] you can get married."

The twins baffled ITV's This Morning hosts Philip Schofield and Holly Willoughby as they bluntly admitted they sleep with him at the same time earlier this year.


They said: "We're in the mood at the same time. He's a lucky guy, He needs double the energy, he gets double the love and double the attention." "We're not hurting anyone and it makes us happy. "We're always going to be together. Because we're with each other 24/7 of our lives it's so much easier to share a boyfriend."